Originally Posted by
xr4man
the comments of the OP's on this new generation as far as manners go is probably spot on. however, his views on women and what they want are not isolated to his generation. that's the way it is and has been for a long time. it's not so much that women are looking for a dick head, it's just that women like drama and excitement. and the "bad boy" provides that for them. so, to get a woman, you don't actually have to look like a greek god. you just have to appeal to their sense of having fun. now, what is that you may ask? it's very simple. yet one of the hardest thing si have found to try and do if it's not natural to you.
anyone who has seen "who framed roger rabbit" already knows the secret, but may not understand it. all you have to do is make them laugh. it's that simple. find what makes a girl laugh and she's yours. i have seen it over and over again. without fail.
so you don't need to be a douche bag and treat a good lookin' girl like crap. and you can continue being your nice self and be chivalrous and all that (which they do appreciate) but you have to provide excitement and fun, and that's what laughter does. they laugh and think "i'm laughing, so this must be fun."
there it is. that's the secret.