Hello all as the title says i need to vent a little please reply or vent yourself .
Well i was laid off again for two weeks going back monday which is a good thing for how long who knows anymore lol .
My aunt died a few months ago who i was really close to earlier in my life she helped me thru some really tough times when i was like 5 yrs old .
Well i hadent seen her in a long time before she passed my fault completly.
We have been having it tight around the house to say the least as i know a lot of us have i know im blessed im not complaining or criing at all .
My aunt left me a small fund before she died that i or anyone else knew anything about but i am truely greatful it i am very careful with the credit cards so its enough to pay those off buy enough propane to get us thru the winter i hope pay off a personal loan .
My wife told me since i was using it to pay bills most of it she wanted me to build a new gaiming pc when my other pc went down i said
Well as any of you know when you sign back up for unemployment it takes a
while to get your money .
So im pretty broke right now so i was really counting on that check i mean i have like $3 lol .
Well i had to do all these diffrent things to get the money that my aunt left me i did everything to the letter triple checked .
I had to to mail the letter like last wednesday or thursday they told me as soon as they got it they would mail my check right away because of my need
for the money .
Well of course it took till today to get here they shoulkd have had it by last friday .
When the sent it too me i got all kinds of advertisements wanting me to become a customer blahblah like four letters besides the check of course
when it got here the banks were all closed where my wife works has like a small bank kind of thing in there building they told me that they would cash it no problem well when i opened it it had the wrong %&*%^*&(* name on it .
They put my last aunts last name as mine nowhere on any document the have should my name aand hers be the same they have my social all that crap they need to prevent this kind of stuff guranteed signature .
Well i called them today i got someone in customer service he checked everything and said it was there mistake well duh and would overnight a check on monday with the correct name .
I might not should be so mad but this is like a financial firm no wonder there failing like mad .
if you guys ahve anything to say or add feel free . thanks for letting me vent now for part 2 lol
I need some advice here guys where i work is at a cabinet shop i work in the door shop i have been there 15 years well we had 5 or so fulltime employees
since the economy hit the tank .
We got laid off well they hired my bosses daughter to come too work with us wo bascically what happened is im the only one that has been called back me.
The daughter and the boss who is her aunt well anyway i have tried to get along with her the best i can but she wants to reinvent the wheel in everything which i dont really mind but ,
She always tell the bosss any little thing she that she thinks i did wrong 99%
of the time it is stuff that dosent even matter like how i fold the work order papers everything i do she goes no dont do that do this .
But then sometimes when i ask her what she wants me to do she says i dosent matter to me im not the boss .
I will be honest she is one of the bosses daughters If i stand up for myself or disagree i will get fired .
I have very low self esteem i think they thrive on that you know like to keep me worried there arent very many jobs around here i am very under educated .I didnt finish high school i mean i read decent and i dont have like a real learning problem im in no way a genuis eithier lol ,
I know i need to stay there and work what i can but guys i think im going to have a nervous breakdown or something i know nobody really loves going to work but i honestly dread every morning i get up to go to work i really need to be working and i want to work my 40 Hrs but its like being laid off is my only break from there crap but then i get depressed because im not working .
I really am not a crybaby or wimp but i dont know what else too do any andvice i could look for another job but im afraid i will work like two months get laid off and cant even draw unemployement .
Sorry that was a long one feel a little better now any help appreciated.